Never develop the habit of spending on a guy you're dating, there's no harm in helping them when they're in need, What real men want is a faithful lady, not one that spends on them.
To some spending on them reduces their self worth, even in marriages when a lady is the bread winner of the family, the men are not so happy, so why should your boyfriend be happy when you're the one doing virtually everything for him?, when such a relationship crashes, he has nothing to lose but you.
Imagine if all you do is:pay his school fees, pay rents, cook for him with your money whenever you visit, change his wardrobe, when there's no guarantee he will even marry you, neither are you his sugar mummy, is he handicap?. He will take all these and still cheat on you, and dump you when the need arise.
We ladies are naturally emotional, while the male counterparts are naturally logical, when he dumps you suicide is inevitable, he's likely to move on sooner that you.
He asked you out, you didn't ask him, why should you two go on a date, and you're the one buying everything, while he's collecting?.
Spending on a guy is not healthy, even your parents will frown at it.
Expecting the ladies you date to spend on you is like patronising a prostitute and asking her to pay you.
We're not in India where women marry men. 
source: http://www.nairaland.com/3253028/should-lady-spend-guy-shes
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